5 proven steps to achieve success in life. A complete guide

In order to be successful, one should come out of their comfort zone.


 Let me be straight, for the one who is reading this blog,

Are you willing to give up your short term comfort, for a great win

Are you willing to come out of your comfort zone, for a great win?

If no, you can press the back button and continue scrolling,

And if yes,

welcome to the 1% club. Spare me you 5 minutes, and I bet you will have a change in your mindset, after reading this post, so read till end.

5 steps for becoming successful and persuing your dream. 

In this rapidly developing era, due to increasing competitions, students are being pushed towards academic excellence, rather than personality development. Of course, both are of equal importance but let me make myself clear using an example.

“While operating an Industry, we focus on each and every department of the industry. If we only invest all our capital and resources on a single factory or a department of the industry, then that particular factory will progress, for sure. But it will not benefit the industry, the value of shares of that particular industry, will probably decrease in stock market.”

In the same way, one must not only focus on academic excellence, rather should sharpen all our skills be it communicating skills, logical thinking, vocational skills, leadership skills, management skills, etc.

1. GOAL SETTING

“Once a 10 year old girl asked Dr A.P.J Abdul Kalam,

 “sir, how did you become so great?

 Kalam sir smiled and asked that girl, “do you have a dream?

 “yes” she replied.

Watch this video to know kalam sir’s reply. 









You must have already got the answer right ?    

 You cannot achieve success without a goal.

Now the biggest question is that how to set a goal

One must have 2 types of goals, Long term and short term goal

1. Long term goal:

 A long term goal is a goal that you want to acquire, accomplish in your life and you’re indeed willing to give up all damn shit that is stopping you achieve it.

2. Short term goal:

Short term goals are basically goals which helps you reach your long term goal. They are like various challenges that you need to overcome in order to achieve your goal  

2. Keep a learning attitude. 

Never regret for your mistakes, always learn from them


No one is perfect, neither was mahatma Gandhi nor is Donald trump.

Then too, many of us after receiving a degree of MBBS or becoming an IPS officer, or becoming a chartered accountant, we think highly of ourselves,

No one is greater than me, no one is as hardworking as me, no one is smarter than me, knowingly or unknowingly these useless thoughts keep lingering into our mind.

This is abruptly wrong. One must have a learning attitude. Even if you are appointed as an intern in the media department of a respective company, try doing work related to HR Department. Learn from each and every aspect of nature,

learn ‘consistency’ from water. Learn ‘living your life to the fullest’ from flowers. Learn ‘doing good deeds without any expectations’ from trees.

Having a Learning attitude is one of the signs of great people.

 

3. Become hungry for money. 

always be commited for your dreams.


I don’t know why but, this myth has a very bad influence on the society, especially the middle class society,

We have a very bad impression of money,

Whenever we talk about saving money in some or the other way the society consider us as a ‘kanjoos marwadi’, but why marwadi? This is because they always try and save each and every penny without carelessly wasting them which is actually good.

And also, when someone spends their money for entertainment purpose( own money which is earned by their own hardwork ) people consider them as a ‘blackmoney maker’

Isn’t this true guys, I hope you’ll are able to relate.

My point is, unless and until we don’t have a thirst for money, unless we get crazy for earning a lot of money, believe me guys we will never get successful.

Let me take an example 

Be an actiontaker, and this buggati will be yours in the next five years


whenever we see a Rolls Royce or a buggati in some advertisement, we imagine ourselves sitting in that car with a broad smile, but the very next second that smile disappears thinking its any which ways not possible, right ? 

If we have this type of a negative attitude, we'll never gonna make it, we can never achieve it if we don't have a thirst for it.  

It is possible, if you are determined everything is possible, just be crazy and keep finding ways to earn money, either by smart investments or by starting your own business. 

 

4. Change your habits to see the results.

5 am - waking up 

5 am to 5:30 - reading 

5:30 to 7 am - jogging and exercise 

7 am to 7:30 am - meditation

This is the time table of a billionaire

"Having a billionaire mindset doesn’t matters, but having a billionaire habit does."

Some habits of rich people are as follows, 

Reading books: Bill gates says he reads 50 books a year. Reading not only provides us knowledge but it also improves our literature especially English. Not only books but reading newspapers, magazines, and various columns keeps us updated.

They never Show Off : you will always find middleclass people trying to show-off by buying luxurious items without planning a budget and later cursing their boss in the end of the month for giving limited salary. The worst part comes when people buy items on EMI. Rich people always make their money work by smartly investing them.

They say no to debt : “Debt is a big obstacle for building wealth,” advises Ramsey. Debts are always taken by poor people. Taking a loan for buying a car or a new house is not at all reasonable. Rich people never take loans, they always save up money for buying something luxurious, which is more wiser. 

They don’t have wishes they have plans: poor people always have their wishes written on the wishlist, as if some jenie will come to fulfil it. You too have right? Rich people have goals, for which they have a plan and strategies to achieve it.  


5. Always be ready to accept failures. 

Failures are the best teachers


If you’ve come this far reading this, it means you are serious. Now remember one thing,

Pain is temporary, but quitting is forever.

Yes guys, in your way to success there will be a lot of hurdles, challenges and obstacles which you will have to face and there will be times where you will be struck by continuous failures.

Whenever you feel discouraged or feel like giving up, just remember one thing that this is where winners are prepared.

Never regret or feel burdened about your failure, always accept it as a learning and never make the same mistake twice. Honestly speaking,

"You can never ever achieve the true taste of success, without experiencing failures."

Never be dragged down by failures, they are meant to stop you, give up everything that stops you from achieving your goal, leave then.

90% people after reading this post will not take action, 9% of them will give it a thought, and keep reading such posts everyday, but only 1% of them will be true actiontaker. 
 

Comments

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